Shams Ragheb writes the etiquette of dialogue in the light of the Qur’an and Sunnah
Written by: Dr. Shams Ragheb
Dialogue etiquette in light of the Qur’an and Sunnah Dialogue is a basic means of communication
between people, and it is an effective tool for building bridges
And understanding between people of different backgrounds and cultures. Dialogue plays a vital role
in bridging distances and strengthening relationships
Humanity, as it allows individuals to exchange ideas, feelings, and experiences directly and frankly.
According to Professor Dr. Shams
Ragheb, faculty member at the Islamic University of Minnesota, America Successful and effective
dialogue requires a group
It is one of the etiquettes and values that every individual must follow to ensure mutual
understanding and mutual respect.
In our world today, where social, cultural and political challenges are increasing, constructive
dialogue has become an urgent necessity to build…
Cohesive and peaceful societies. Through dialogue, individuals and groups can reach common
understandings and solutions
compatibility with the different issues they face. To achieve this, it is necessary to adhere to the
etiquette and ethics of dialogue, which are evident
In patience, humility, good listening and acceptance of others.
In Islam, dialogue is considered an integral part of calling to God and spreading the truth, and was
established by the Holy Qur’an and the Sunnah of the Prophet
Many principles and guidelines that guide us to proper dialogue etiquette. God Almighty says in His
Holy Book: “Call to
“Follow the path of your Lord with wisdom and beautiful instruction, and argue with them in a way
that is best” (Surat An-Nahl, verse 125). This verse explains
The honorable thing is that dialogue in Islam must be based on wisdom, good advice, and debate in
the best way.
Which reflects the importance of respect and kindness in dealing with others.
Hence, this article reviews these etiquettes and values in the light of the Qur’an and Sunnah,
pointing out the importance of applying them in…
Our daily lives to achieve constructive and fruitful dialogue. The article discusses how to achieve
successful dialogue through good preparation
Active listening, humility, self-control, and choosing your words carefully. It will also review examples
from the biography of the Prophet Muhammad
May God bless him and grant him peace, and how he dealt with different sects and situations, which
provides us with a role model for etiquette.
Dialogue.
In doing so, we seek a deeper understanding of the importance of dialogue and its etiquette in
Islam, and how these principles can contribute to building dialogue
Bridges understanding and cooperation between individuals and communities, thus contributing to
creating an environment of mutual respect and peace
Social.
Dialogue etiquette in light of the Qur’an and Sunnah:
The importance of dialogue in Islam
Dialogue in Islam is not just a means of communication, but rather a tool for understanding,
cooperation and peaceful coexistence. The Qur’an has confirmed
The Holy Prophet and the Sunnah of the Prophet stress the importance of dialogue and respect for
others, regardless of their differences. God Almighty says in his book
Al-Aziz: “Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and beautiful instruction, and argue with them
in a way that is best” (Surat An-Nahl, verse 125).
This verse emphasizes the necessity of using wisdom and good advice in calling to God and in
Dialogue etiquette in the Holy Quran:
1. Wisdom and good advice
The Holy Qur’an emphasizes the importance of using wisdom and good advice in dialogue. God
Almighty says: “Call to
the way of your Lord with wisdom and beautiful instruction” (An-Nahl: 125). This means that the
dialogue must be thoughtful, and based
To the facts and evidence, it aims to provide advice and guidance in a gentle and acceptable
manner.
The Holy Qur’an calls for arguing in a way that is best, as God Almighty says: “And argue with them
in a way that is best” (An-Nahl:
125). This means that dialogue must be gentle and gentle, and in a way that achieves mutual
understanding and respect.
3. Respect others
The Holy Qur’an stresses the need to respect others in dialogue, even if they are of a different
religion or belief. God says
God Almighty says: “You have your religion and I have my religion” (Al-Kafirun: 6). This
demonstrates that Islam respects freedom of belief and thought, and encourages
Constructive dialogue without coercion or fanaticism.
Dialogue etiquette in the Sunnah of the Prophet:
1. Humility and not being arrogant
The Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace, was a model of humility during
dialogue. He was not condescending to anyone, and he listened
To others with listening and respect. Abu Dawud narrated on the authority of Anas bin Malik, may
God be pleased with him, who said: “The slave woman was one of the slave girls of Medina
To take the hand of the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and take him
wherever she wants.” (Narrated by Al-Bukhari). This hadith demonstrates humility.
The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and his willingness to dialogue with everyone,
regardless of their social status.
2. Listen well
The Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace, listened to others attentively and
without interruption. Good listening is considered one of the best
The most important dialogue etiquette, because it expresses respect for the speaker and allows his
point of view to be fully understood. The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, says
He said: “Whoever believes in God and the Last Day, let him speak good or remain silent” (Narrated
by Al-Bukhari and Muslim). This hadith refers to
The importance of listening and thinking before speaking.
3. Patience and dream
Patience and forbearance are among the qualities that the Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him
and grant him peace, emphasized in dialogue. He was dealing with
He discussed and debated with patience and forbearance, even with those who opposed or offended
him. The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, says
He, peace be upon him, said: “The strong man is not the one who fights, but the strong man is the
one who controls himself when angry” (Narrated by Al-Bukhari and Muslim). this
The conversation highlights the importance of self-control and not getting emotional during the
dialogue.
4. Kindness in speech
Kindness in speech is one of the basic principles that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him
peace, urged in dialogue. It was always
He uses kind and polite words, and avoids hurtful or insulting words. God Almighty says: “And speak
good to people.”
(Al-Baqarah: 83). This indicates the need to use polite and respectful language in dialogue.
5. Admitting a mistake
The Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace, taught us the importance of
admitting a mistake and apologizing if we made a mistake in dialogue. This is considered
It is one of the highest levels of morality, as it expresses courage and honesty. The Prophet, may
God bless him and grant him peace, says: “Every son of Adam
A mistake, and the best of sinners are those who repent.” (Narrated by Al-Tirmidhi).
Applying dialogue etiquette in our daily lives:
To achieve successful and constructive dialogue in our daily lives, we must follow the principles we
have learned from the Holy Quran and Sunnah
Prophetic. Here are some practical tips for implementing this etiquette:
Good preparation: Before entering into any dialogue, we must be well prepared, and know the topic
we will talk about in depth.
Respect time: You must respect the time of others and not dwell on useless conversations, and try
to focus on the essential points.
Active Listening: Listening well is half the conversation. We must listen carefully, avoid interrupting,
and try to understand the other’s point of view before responding.
Humility: We must deal with others with humility, and avoid being condescending or mocking their
opinions.
Calmness and self-control: We must maintain calm during the dialogue, and avoid getting emotional
or angry.
Choose words carefully: We must choose our words carefully, and avoid hurtful or insulting words.
Admitting a mistake: If we make a mistake, we must be brave enough to admit our mistake and
apologize for it.
In conclusion, dialogue is considered one of the most important means of communication between
people, and it is an effective tool for achieving understanding and cooperation between people
the people. In Islam, the Holy Qur’an and the Sunnah of the Prophet contain many principles and
directives that guide us to…
Correct conversation etiquette. By following these principles, we can achieve a successful and
constructive dialogue that contributes to promoting mutual understanding and peace
the people.
With Regards :
Dr. Shams Ragheb, faculty member at the Islamic University of Minnesota, America
